Episode 90: Real Estate with a Newborn – Navigating Motherhood and Business
Welcome back to Hustle Humbly! In this episode, we dive into what it’s really like juggling real estate with a new born. Alyssa is just three weeks into maternity leave and shares candidly about the mental load, emotional ups and downs, and the tricky balance between caring for a newborn and running a real estate business.
Recording on a Whim, Baby in Tow
Though she didn’t plan to record so soon, Alyssa reached out to Katie for a casual visit and a possible recording session. With baby Tate sleeping peacefully, she felt a burst of energy and connection to her routine—and to her Hustle Humbly family. New moms will relate to the moment she debated canceling the night before, overwhelmed by emotion and worry about ruining someone else’s day.
The Guilt, the Grace, and the Grind
Balancing real estate with a new baby brings a storm of guilt, from worrying about leaving the house too early to wondering how clients will react. Alyssa shares what it’s like to feel at war with yourself—proud to still be working, but overwhelmed by the emotional toll. The truth? Every day brings a different challenge, and every mom’s experience looks a little different.
Systems That Make It Work
Alyssa credits her real estate survival to her amazing assistant, Whitney. With her help, Alyssa has been able to keep up with her business without skipping a beat. She shares how she’s structured her showings, leveraged other agents for help, and even landed a client under contract—all while nursing a newborn.
Client Reactions and the Power of Honesty
One of Alyssa’s clients, unaware she had just delivered a baby, was surprised but incredibly supportive. By being honest and transparent, she found that clients responded with grace—and even gratitude. For those balancing motherhood and business, this proves that handling real estate with a new born doesn’t mean you have to disappear.
Ask for Help—And Say Yes to It
From asking friends to show homes to finally saying yes to a meal train. Whether it’s your mom, your friend, or a fellow agent, support is essential when you’re navigating real estate with a newborn. And remember, people want to help—you just have to let them.
Judgment and Social Media Pressure
From car seat comments to recalled rockers, Alyssa and Katie talk openly about the pressures moms face from social media. Alyssa worries about posting anything that might make another mom feel like they’re not doing enough. Everyone’s path looks different, and comparison steals joy.
Final Thoughts and Ruth Bader Ginsburg Wisdom
“Each part of my life provided respite from the other,” she reads, echoing the balance so many moms are trying to find.
To the New Moms in Real Estate
If you’re navigating real estate with a new born, know you’re not alone. Whether you’re showing houses, writing offers between feedings, or simply trying to remember the last time you showered—this season is tough but temporary. Your clients, your colleagues, and your family will understand. Keep doing what’s right for you.
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